Nanny Sightings

NANNY LEFT SLEEPING BABY UNATTENDED IN STROLLER ATTACHED TO DOG OUTSIDE BLEECKER STREET (WSEST VILLAGE) BODEGA FOR SEVERAL MINUTES ON OCT. 5

How many of you have actually seen a nanny intentionally mistreating a child? I am talking about actual abuse and not a snippet of what goes on with a nanny and child daily. Snapping a picture of a nanny in the park while she is on her phone is hardly classifies or abuse. You may spot 15 seconds of a child having a meltdown/tantrum and the nanny grabbing/pulling him/her by the arm and immediately you take a picture and say the nanny is abusing the child but maybe in truth that nanny is preventing that child from injuries. Most babies/toddlers likes to throw themselves on the ground head first and as a way of preventing them from injuries requires quick sprungs. Oftentimes these kids are not discipline and allowed to have their own way..from hitting parents to throwing items..and it is left to the nannies to try curb this behaviour meanwhile the parents continues to enable the bad one. Oftentimes what is reported on these sites are just snippets of a persons every day routine and what one have to endure. If you genuinely see any form of abuse…and I mean sticking around for more than 15 seconds then by all means approach the nanny in a non confrontational and judgemental way and say something. Stop pointing ur phone and snapping pictures of a moment that may not depict the whole story

I was at Whole Foods on the UES today at about 12pm and saw an Asian nanny sleeping on the job. I tried several times to wake her, she was in a deep sleep. The little boy she was with was in a stroller, toddler age, with a yellow shirt on and dark colored shorts. The stroller was right by the elevators, I could have easily walked away with it and no one would notice!! Unbelievable. I watched her for at least 15 minutes. Finally when I woke her up and confronted her about leaving him unattended, she acted like it was no big deal and quickly left. I have a short video and photo of her. 

It’s amazing to me that none of the people who’ve posted on here said that they intervened when they thought a child was being neglected or mistreated in any way. Is it enough to be right there and see what’s happening, find the time to snap a pic or video but no time to politely approach the nanny?!?! How much better are you?

In NYC - Moms and dads I have seen some abusive nannies and downright unacceptable behavior. The best way to track down the parents is to follow the nanny from afar and see what building they walk into. I’ve asked the doorman and found out what family the child belongs to this way. It takes patience but is well worth it to have piece of mind that you did the right thing by informing the parents.

PLEASE please please do not turn a blind eye and walk away thinking that “someone else” will speak up, post something online, or that “it’s none of my business”. Parents are PAYING someone for peace of mind to take care of the MOST IMPORTANT being in their life. If you wouldn’t want YOUR child treated that way, report it to the parents! Not everyone checks the nanny sites online. Or please call 911 immediately, you do not have to give your personal details over the phone. 

While at the New Rochelle Library this nanny (freckled face) repeatedly yanked a young boys arm at least four times in a matter of 10 minutes, the boy maybe 1-2 yrs old, telling him not to touch the touchscreen computer, also the baby girl she was holding nearly fell from her arms, her head pulling back and she began to cry. This namny is not fit to be with such young children.

How about all the Nannies that are doing an excellent job?. Doesn’t any one see that?

I am fresh out of a long term relationship with a bona fide narcissistic personality disordered human. Google “narcissistic cycle of abuse” and you’ll understand the mental abuse I’ve been subjected to.

The thing is, I’m in my 40s;  my ex is a nanny to very young boys and I wonder how she manipulates those boys when she’s not in the house, within camera range.

I’m going to have to make some phone calls.